So, we have been very, very busy having a great time. We got involved with a lifestyle group that hosts all kinds of awesome events and we have been navigating a crazy ride since then! We started out with them as an online group and as we got more comfortable, we started attending some events. They host all kinds of things like meet and greets, takeovers, house parties...all kinds of fun stuff in and around a very large area. The variety is just awesome! We hardly check any of the lifestyle websites anymore because we are meeting so many amazing people and our dance card is pretty full :)
We have gone to quite a few events at this point, but we really haven't played much at said events. There are always options and some possibility for play, but we haven't partaken other than some kissing, groping, etc... I can get a little prissy sometimes. I firmly believe in only really flirting with people I'm interested in and can't just flirt with anyone. I promised hubby that I would try to loosen up a bit at the next event we were attending. Boy did I!!!
So the event we went to was a takeover with some limited play space upstairs. We had attended the last one a month ago, so we had an idea of what to expect. We started the night out at a little hotel pre-party, which was just a bunch of half-naked chicks getting ready, kind of a snooze really. So we headed off to the club and started to get situated. Drinks in hand, peeps showing up, a great night was underway! I'm not a huge drinker, but it was flowing that night...shots everywhere and I drank way more than usual! Yikes!! We were so happy to reacquaint ourselves with friends we haven't seen in awhile :) We were also getting a chance to meet some people who had piqued our interest. I was feeling good! We got to meet one gorgeous lady after months of talking!!! N was absolutely luscious in person :) and then I saw her friend...
Now, I'm quite picky about my male playmates...I love pretty boys and boys that dress well. I don't get that as much as I would like, so I focus on other things that I find attractive-brains, humor, good taste in music...
T was wearing a suit and he was smoking hot...drool! I was totally cheesy and was like "Helllooo, there..." so N introduced us and we said our hellos and about three sentences before we started kissing. Which we did a lot of that night. Hanging out with friends, laughing, having a blast, lots of fun flirting and kissing...it was awesome!
Hubby and I got separated somehow...he is a total social butterfly/kissing bandit. He loves to make the ladies feel good. I remember going to watch part of a show over the balcony, and I was wandering around upstairs and I saw N on the table having a great time. I got excited and I went over to say hi and we started kissing and touching and having a blast. Next thing I know, her friend was there and I was kissing him again. We were having fun and then all of a sudden I was on my knees giving him a blow job!
Hubby and I kept missing each other, and he got worried because he couldn't find me, how sweet. I just got a little caught up in the friskiness, he found me on my knees and was "what are you doing?" While I had T's cock in my mouth, I was like "hi honey, nothing". People stopped and were giving us the look like shit was about to go down- ruh ro! I wasn't doing anything wrong, a little oral is ok...he was just very worried about me! Usually we aren't separated for any length of time. Everything was ok as long as I was fine. Hubby walked out of the room while I was giving T head. But I was so drunk I don't remember a lot, especially doing this next thing. Hubby walked out of the room, he was upset that I didn't answer him the first time he walked in the room looking for me. When he walked back in the room I was standing kissing T again while I was stroking his cock with my hand & shouted to hubby across the room full of about 8 people "Can I fuck him?" I put hubby on the spot big time. He has said that with all those people looking at him like some serious shit was about to go down, he couldn't say no. He said, "Fine, whatever, go ahead!" I shouted "Yay!" hubby walked out of the room and then T and I started in.
That was not something I have done before or will ever do again. We don't play separate ever, we never had before! The number one rule for us has been and is, "If one of us isn't playing and doesn't seem to have any offers, neither of us plays". We have friends that are a married couple, she always goes off & plays separate while he sits alone at a table for sometimes hours. I had always felt so bad for him sitting there alone looking sad & here I had just done that to hubby. This was totally out of line for me to ask :( I did tell T he had to wrap it, so he got a condom and then we were good to go.
Of course hubby was not happy with me, as was his right...I was too drunk to really realize what I had done or realize what an idiot I was! I have changed rules in the past in the heat of the moment and he gets pissed about it...I know it's wrong of me, but it has happened a few times in the past. This one was a MAJOR no-no though! The blow was slightly softened when several minutes later a friend of ours asked if everything was ok to hubby and he said no, that I was playing alone. She said I thought you didn't play separate, he said "so did I", then she asked if he wanted to play with her & her husband. So he revenge fucked her because I did a bad, bad, thing. He still has the scabs on his knees to prove it.
So after all of this went down, we were going to continue the fun back at the hotel party. Hubby was alright with the way things worked out for the most part. T didn't know our rules, so I am the only one to blame for lack of judgement. I had sobered up a bit by then, so things were looking up!
Things were a little nuts at the hotel, once the ball got rolling it was a crazy fun filled fuck fest!! I was running around flogging people, there were bubbles everywhere and naked people running up and down the hallways. Clothes came off and people got down to business. I was kissing and touching and exploring my two lovely friends and their womanly charms. T stayed away for awhile, he fucked a cougar with this other guy that no one knew. He came over and started fucking me while it was going down on my hubby...I love to have one in my mouth and my pussy at the same time...a favorite position of mine :). Then he was in my mouth while my friend D was fucking me, holy hotness batman! What a hot slutty night ;). That was fun for sure. It is great to have a group of fun friends that you can hang out with, party with and fuck all night if you so desire.
This night has spawned so many discussions and quite a few more play dates and plans with some of the people involved. It is amazing how things evolve and how you end up in situations you would never believe, but that is a posting for another day!
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So, have you wondered what is going on inside a woman's head when she is getting ready for for a night of swinging?
It starts out with giddy thoughts all day thinking that yay! Hubby and I get to be so naughty...he-he! And when co-workers ask about plans, it is always "we are going out dancing (BIG SMILE)!"
And it is always with friends and friends of friends :)
Getting ready for a swinging night out starts with a tingle in the 'giney and a spring in my step. It is always best to be prepared, so I start out with a little kitty de-fuzzing and then a nice close shave in a bubble bath. One must always be extra clean and presentable just in case. While I am relaxing, I like to think about what is going to look hot on the floor while getting our freak on. I aim for comfort and style.
Depending on the night's theme at the club, sometimes I participate, sometimes not. And I never change into lingerie or something else while at the club. I'm not like most of the others that go there, I like a little mystery. I usually build my outfit around what sexy shoes I want to wear and then figure out what will look the hottest. I like showing off my long, sexy legs the most. After the outfit is decided on, the decorating and adorning can begin. I pick out the jewelry and then put on my make up. I fix my hair and add the finishing touch with some perfume, I love when people tell me I smell good.
We get in our sexy car and drive an hour to the club. We have lots of fun, dirty conversation about all of the naughty things we would like to do that night. We talk about what sexy friends are going to be there and the endless possibilities for naughtiness.
Once we get to the club, we check in and start looking to see who is there! We spot friends or others we would like to get to know, get a drink and start chatting. There are always plenty of warm welcomes consisting of kissing and a little groping, yay!
We dance, talk and flirt up a storm! We love to see where the chemistry is and take it from there. The best nights involve flirting, eye contact, a little touching, maybe some dancing and hopefully it progresses to some hot kissing and a little groping...or a little bit more. I get excited thinking of all the possibilities! Does she like girls? Does she reciprocate? How into her am I? How hot is her partner? Then the talking begins a little about finding a room...fun, fun, fun!
Once the deal is sealed and we get our party bag and head to a room...boy do we love on-premise lifestyle clubs LOL!!!
Once we are in the room, some kissing usually goes on and a discussion of what each couples' (what we prefer) rules are begins...a good heads up, especially if they don't fully swap (have intercourse) with another couple.
When everyone is good and understands...that is when the action starts to take place...lots of kissing sounds, clothes flying through the air and oohhs and ahhs...its fun to explore and hang on for the adventure! I love to go with the flow and see how everything goes...we have had some really awesome nights because of great chemistry and communication...always so important!
I am confident that I will have a great sexy time because my hubby and I communicate well...we know what works for us and we sure as hell know how to have a swinging good time ;)
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