A Swinging Good Time....

"Variety is the Spice of Life"

2012-03-01T20:04:00.002-08:00

by Hubby

When Wifey and I started in the Lifestyle we were kind of picky who we played with: too picky. It was almost like we were looking for best friends or even boyfriend/girlfriend material. At this point we have changed our philosophy a little more as Swingers. Neither of us is in search of the ones that are our perfect type that we want to play with. On the contrary, we look for people that stimulate our minds as well as being attractive that may not fit our typical type.

We have no racial hang-ups at all. We've enjoyed playing with a couple of Unicorns that aren't white and two of the couples we have played with were interracial; white girl & black guy. We are excited because tomorrow night is the first time we are meeting a new couple and both of them are very attractive and happen to be black. We've never played with a black couple and, in fact, she will be only our second black woman if we do play. We can't wait!

On Saturday night this week we have another date with someone else that will be new for us; a younger couple. Wifey and I fit almost precisely in the stereotypical age demographic. Wifey is in her mid-thirties and I am in my early forties. The couple we are meeting Saturday night are both in their twenties. Until now, the only twenty-something we have played with just happened to be the black girl Unicorn we played with a year ago. Everyone else has been in their thirties or forties and we've even had a couple very sexy Swingers in their fifties. I know Wifey is looking forward to Saturday. She hasn't had a guy in his twenties since before we were dating.

Here's hoping a weekend of variety turns out to be all we are hoping for & more!

Meet & Greets Are OK, It's the After-Party That Rocks!

2012-02-29T08:36:00.003-08:00

By Hubby

Up until Friday, February 24th, we'd only ever been to one Lifestyle Meet & Greet (M&G). Admittedly, we find them a bit odd to get a handle on because they are generally at Vanilla bars. (A "Vanilla" is a non-Swinger, so a "Vanilla Bar" is basically just a regular bar with regular people.) You can make some good contacts at a M&G, it's just the "fun" you generally associate with being in the Lifestyle has to be toned down quite a bit (i.e. No cock-sucking or pussy-licking on the barstools.)

Our sitter had to work until 7:30 pm and the M&G was a little over an hour a way so we were already going to be starting out a little behind in getting to the party as it started at 8 pm. Wifey & I were all tarted up when the sitter arrived at 7:45 pm. We said our good-byes & rushed out the door.

Experience has shown us in the Lifestyle, you always need to be prepared, so even though it was just a M&G at a Vanilla bar, we still had the "Party Bag" in the trunk of the car. (A Party Bag is a backpack, briefcase or suitcase used to carry things like condoms, lubes, lotions, sex toys, fragrances, gum, mouthwash, hair gel, booze, extra clothes... Basically anything you might need to have a good time & look your best.) This time, also included in the bag were a couple of boxes of something new. A friend of ours recommended we try some sexual enhancement supplements: Rockhard Weekend for me & Pandora for Wifey. We had mentioned we had been trying to get an orgy set up at an after-party and she said she thought we would really enjoy Rockhard Weekend & Pandora and so she gave us a few capsules of each.

As I said, the drive was a little over an hour, we got there in 50 minutes. ;) We got to the town where the M&G and the bar we were looking for was only to find that it was all metered parking in the area and everything was packed. We drove around 10 minutes looking for a spot & finally found a parking garage. The meter in the garage only took quarters & I only had two. That wasn't going to be enough to get us until 10 pm, the time they stop checking the meters. I had to download the meter pay app to my phone, that took a few minutes, register the app, another 5 minutes & then enter payment information with a minimum payment of $10 being required. Seriously, I was having to pay $10 for $2 worth of parking? I guess we will be going to M&Gs until we get our full $10 worth. Wifey was getting annoyed because this whole process was taking way too long and she is standing in the cold in high-heels, miniskirt and her faux-fur mini jacket. She said, "I feel like I look like a Russian hooker standing here."

Meter paid, we started walking the two blocks or so to the bar. Half-way there, Wifey asks me, "Did you lock the car?"

"Shit, I forgot because you were still fixing your hair when I was paying the meter. You keep going since your shoes are making it hard to walk, I'll catch up."

I ran back to the garage & upstairs, hit the button on my lock when I was close enough to see the lights blink. I then ran back heading towards the bar. Standing in front of the bar was this tall hot blonde in all black... Wifey. Guys walking by kept staring at her. When I got within earshot, I asked, "How much Baby?"

She played along and said, "For you, 5,000 rubles..... I really do look like a Russian hooker in this, don't I?"

That's my girl!

We notice from the outside, that the M&G is obviously in the basement bar of the 3 story-building as the blinds to the windows are completely open & we can plainly see the Mardi Gras decorations that was the theme of the party that night. "Well," I say to Wifey "Not a whole lot of privacy. I guess you won't be sucking any cocks at the bar tonight."

"Damn!" is all she replied.

We walked through the busy first floor & immediately headed towards the basement. Not even a warning from the employees or a sign to indicate what sort of party was going on downstairs. We walked in & I immediately saw D., the husband of the couple we had just played with the weekend before at our place. We said our "Hellos" and asked where F., his wife, was. "She's off mingling."

I looked around but didn't see her. The place was full of people wearing Mardi Gras beads but, for the most part, everyone looked pretty normal. No women walking around in fishnet bodystockings at this party.

I took Wifey's wrap & offered to get us drinks at the bar. The bartenders clearly were in on what kind of party this was even if they were Vanillas. The 30-something guy with his date standing at the bar in front of me ordering drinks asked the bartender, "What's the big party going on tonight?"

The bartender gave me a knowing smirk that I returned back, "It's a birthday party."

The customer asked, "Who's birthday?"

With an even bigger smile, the bartender pointed at me and said, "This guy!"

He turned to me and asked, "Is it really your birthday? Did you get any good presents?"

I smiled at the bartender again & said to the guy, "Oh... I'll be opening something good tonight!" And walked away with a laugh.

I think eventually the guy & his date must have noticed the full-color glossy flyers with the photo of the busty scantily-clad woman touting "free registration" for the Swinger site sponsoring the M&G on all the tables; the couple kind of vanished. LOL

I brought our drinks back to the table D. had been holding. F., his wife was back from mingling. I don't know how I hadn't seen her in the crowd! She was the only person in the bar dressed in the Mardi Gras theme. She wore a very tiny gold, purple & green sequin bikini & headdress. Wow! F. is pretty stacked so the bikini was just barely holding her breasts in. We kissed our "hellos" and I asked how things were going. F. said it seemed a little slower than she expected but she met some cool people.

"No orgy at your place tonight then?" I asked with a wink.

She said with a frown, "No, probably not. But you two are coming over, right?"

"Oh yeah... We are planning on it."

I suggested we mingle, and F. introduced us to a few couples she had met earlier. I could tell Wifey wasn't "feeling it" with anyone that F. had introduced us to. But we chatted for a while before she finally said, "my shoes are hurting, I'm going back to the table."

F. and I mingled some more & I pointed out the girls I liked. She didn't know any, but suggested we go talk to them. I said I wanted to check on Wifey instead.

I got back to the table and asked Wifey how she was doing. "My feet don't hurt, I'm just not really feeling anyone in the place right now. To many single guys."

I thought so. I decided to hang out with D. & Wifey at the table for a while. At least they were hitting it off well.

F. joined us again. After chatting with F. & D. at the table, it was suggested we go back to their place for the real fun. I got Wifey her coat. But just as we were getting ready to leave I approached a pixie-like redheaded woman I had eyed earlier & F. had told me her name was B.

I said to B., "I'm sorry, we are getting ready to leave, but I had just had to tell you before we go that you are absolutely beautiful."

Her face lit up, "Thank you! Who's we?"

"My wife & I," I said, "would you like to meet her?"

"Absolutely" was all she said as she followed me back to the table.

I made introductions to Wifey & B. and said to her, "As you can tell, I have a bit of a fetish for women with short hair."

"I see that" she said with a sly grin as she touched Wifey's short blonde hair.

"We are going, but I hope we see you around again." I said as I gave B. a hug.

"Me too. Here is my card with my email & cell." I happily took the card and Wifey & I hugged B. good-bye.

On the way out Wifey said, "Give me her card… We can't lose that one!"

F. & D. drove us back to the garage with our car so we could follow them on the 30 minute drive back to their place. We got in our car and Wifey & I took the Rockhard Weekend and Pandora given to us by our friend before the drive started. 35 minutes later, D. drives slower than I do LOL, we were in a well-manicured neighborhood parking by a very well-maintained house from the 1930's.

We went into the house and got the tour. The house was beautiful & full of antiques. We sat in the living room with Wifey, D. & F. all on the small couch. and me on a love-seat on the other side of the room. Wifey had a couple drinks while we all chatted. I didn't want any more as I was going to have drive eventually.

I could tell something was going on with Wifey, she was getting the "I need to get fucked!" look and the Rockhard Weekend was certainly kicking in for me.

After chatting for about 45 minutes or so, I started to wonder if anything was gonna start; it wasn't our house, we didn't know where they play. A couple minutes later, my question was answered. F. crawled across the floor and started rubbing my cock through my jeans. "Mmmm, this feel nice," she said upon feeling my hard-on. "May I?" she asked Wifey as she started undoing my jeans.

Wifey enthusiastically said, "Please go ahead..."

She licked my cock shaft up and down before I said, "Fuck this" and stood up and pulled my pants off altogether; I wanted her to have full access to my throbbing cock & balls.

F. sucked and slurped my dick for a few minutes. I could hear D. & Wifey talking about how hot it looked watching me getting sucked off like that.

After a while, F. called Wifey over and suggested she join her in her efforts. Wifey crawled over and took my cock in her mouth bobbing up and down while F. was licking and slobbering all over my balls. I love a good wet & sloppy blow job! Guiding each of their heads in a hand, I was moaning in ecstasy as they both licked and sucked greedily at my dick. This was getting very hot & I was getting close to blowing my load if I wasn't careful. I stood up and told F. to get her clothes off & lay back on the floor because I wanted to lick her hot pussy. She quickly complied as Wifey moved to sucking D.'s dick while he sat on the other couch.

F. & I were both completely naked now, I kissed her lips and slowly moved my mouth down her body, over her tits and down to her dripping wet pussy. I licked all around her outer lips & slipped my tongue in and out, burying my face in her shaved bald pussy. I've learned enough with Wifey, you don't go straight for the clit, you tease the whole pussy all over, getting our face dripping wet, until they virtually beg you to lick the clit. F. came with a loud scream. After she came I laid back on the floor watching Wifey sucking D's cock while F. began licking and sucking mine again.

That was it, I needed to fuck! I went to get the Party Bag with the Costco big metal box o'condoms from the front entry way and returned to find D. licking Wifey and making her moan loudly until she came.

Now, I am a very polite person, but I tend to get aggressive during sex. I rolled the condom on my hard-on and laid back down on the floor and I said to F. "Get that tight little pussy over here & sit on my cock!" She quickly complied and slid up and down my dick as I played with her large beautiful tits.

I heard D. say to Wifey, "this is fucking hot, I need a condom now too!" She handed him one from the Costco big metal box o'condoms, he put it on and asked how she wanted it.

She said "doggy" and got on all fours. I told her I wanted her face by mine so I could kiss her while we all fucked and she moved her face over mine while D. slipped his dick in to her and started pounding away. God does my wife look beautiful when she is getting dicked!

F. was moaning her third orgasm while she writhed on my dick and kept saying, "Oh God, it's so deep!"

I could hear in Wifey's moans that she was getting close to cumming too. Mesmerized by Wifey's gorgeous tits swaying with each thrust of D.'s cock, I pulled her face to mine and forced my tongue into her mouth and kissed her deeply. We kissed for a few moments as F. continued writhing on my dick. Then Wifey pulled her lips away from mine and let out a loud scream of ecstasy. I kissed her deeply again after her moaning stopped. She said to me, "Oh... I love you!"

"I love you too!" was my reply as F. and D. giggled at the two people they were fucking making out & whispering "I love you's" to one another.

Now it was D.'s turn. He was pounding Wifey hard from behind when he let out a loud guttural moan. I said to F. with a wink "That's my girl!" I was so proud of Wifey for working that load out of D.'s cock like only she can.

D. was spent, so he & Wifey sat on the couch for a while to enjoy the show we were putting on. I flipped F. around and put her on her back with her ankles to her ears and started to pound her hard. I don't know if it was the Rockhard Weekend I took or what, but I felt like I couldn't get enough! I lifted F.'s ass up and put a pillow under it & then got up on my feet so I could pile-drive my cock into her. Wifey said it was just way too hot & decided she had to pull out the cell and snap some pics of our fucking.

After F.'s 4th orgasm of the night I told her I needed a short break and a drink of water and grabbed one of the water bottles and took a long swig while catching my breath. I could see in Wifey's eyes she need some of what I had been giving F. all night. I pulled off the condom and told her, "It's your turn… Get over here and sit on my cock." Wifey giggled and eagerly complied.

Now, we've fucked a lot of couples and a few singles since we started Swinging a little over a year ago, but still nothing feels as good as slipping my dick bareback into Wifey's dripping wet pussy. I knew this is what we were building to. Wifey was grinding on my dick as F. & D. watched us fucking on their floor.

"Come here and sit on my face." I commanded to F. "I want to lick you while Wifey fucks me."

F. lowered her dripping wet lips over my face as Wifey ground her's into my dick. After a while, D. couldn't take it and thrust his once-again hard cock down his wife's throat. There we were, all four of us: D standing with his dick in his wife's mouth, she sat on my face while I hungrily licked her pussy and Wifey was riding me hard to her third orgasm of the night. I knew I wouldn't last long! Just after Wifey screamed her orgasm, I let out a scream myself as my balls exploded deep inside her while I pulled her hips down onto me.

Spent... we started to disentangle our bodies. Wifey was the last to pull herself from me. She stood up, and a large amount of my cum dripped out of her pussy and formed a huge pool on F. & D.'s oriental rug. "Oh my God, we are so sorry!" Wifey & I both apologized.

F. just said with a smile, "Don't be sorry, it was worth it."

We sat around naked chatting for a few minutes. F. left & returned in a red silk robe. I checked the clock, it was almost 3 am. We got dressed, collected our things and kissed our thank you's & good-bye's because we had a 90 minute drive ahead of us.

In the car, I asked Wifey if she had a good time. She said "Oh yeah! I still feel kind of tingly all over though."

I said that was probably the Pandora she took and that until she started fucking me while F. was sitting on my face, I felt like I was going to go all night. I said I think we might have to get ahold of some more Rockhard Weekend and Pandora for next weekend since we have two dates with two new couples.

Maybe the M&G wasn't as good as we had hoped, but we made a good night of it. Since I have us booked all weekend this weekend, we might have to see what B. is doing in a couple weeks. We still have her card.

Another Unexpected Orgy!

2012-02-17T07:33:00.000-08:00

by Hubby

As my last post stated, we thought we had a busy time coming up. Last Friday we were going to meet a hot new couple at our Lifestyle club & Saturday we had a date to host another couple at our house in the playroom. Well, things change quickly.

Friday night, the sitter was on her way, we were all washed and shaved smooth and Wifey was getting tarted up for the club. I decided to check the club list to see who was attending that night when I noticed we had an email from the couple we had a date with. They had an emergency & had to cancel. I called them up, there was no way around it. He was especially pissed because it was his birthday & he was hoping for a little birthday action. I said it was ok & we would reschedule.

I went upstairs to break the news to Wifey. While talking to her I suggested that she text the single guy she met the last time we were at the club & see if he had found a chick he can bring with him to make things a foursome (we prefer couples and single ladies.) He actually had signed up to go to the club that night too! And, he was bringing a girl he swings with. Awesome, we are set! Wait, too good to be true. They had just heard the weather could be bad in the area so they were going to go to a club closer to where they lived. Strike two.

Sigh.... The sitter arrived & we headed out. We kept reciting the mantra, "no expectations..." If you think play is inevitable, that's when it doesn't happen.

We get to the club & kissed & groped our "hellos" with the people we know & scanned the crowd. Slim pickings.

We mingled & talked for a while. The bartender announced new members & I say to Wifey, "You and I should just go play."

Instead of heading to the private upstairs rooms, I headed right to the Jacuzzi room with the bed by the open loft. That way, if anyone gets in the Jacuzzi, we can watch and if anybody wants to watch us fucking they can do that too. Plus, that's where the sex swing is located and Wifey really wanted to get fucked in that!

We were going at it pretty hard in the loft by the Jacuzzi. A few couples got in for a soak and the show we were putting on. We tried out the swing; big hit with Wifey! After she came in the swing I wanted to move back to the bed we turned around and saw an older single guy jerking his dick while watching us from the corner of the room, "You don't mind if I watch do you?"

Me, "Naw, go ahead..."

Wifey is riding me cowgirl pretty hard at this point & out of the corner of my eye I see movement. The guy is standing about 2 feet from my head pulling on his dick. "Dude, that is way to close!" I really don't wanna take a cumshot to my face.

He slinks off quietly & then we hear talking in the background about how "this is one of the open rooms, it's also where the sex swing is located..."

Wifey & I fucking are part of the Newbie tour! LOL

Wifey has cum a few times already & I tell her I'm getting close. She suggests I cum on her tits or face because if I cum inside her and we play with anyone else that night, some other guy or girl might not like getting a mouth full of my jizz. We switch to doggy & fucked for a while, eventually I blew my load on her back hard. Ahhhh.... That was good.

We cleaned up & decided to just get in the Jacuzzi for a while. Soon, more & more couples joined us. We got to talking about various things with everyone. I had noticed this brunette that had come in to the club late that evening & had pointed her out to Wifey as one that I thought looked promising. She & her husband joined us in the Jacuzzi. Eventually he started to suck the toes of a cougar in the Jacuzzi with her husband & the hot brunette said, "He loves doing that, but I don't like my feet licked or sucked."

I took that as my opening and slid over next to her and asked her "what do you like being licked & sucked?" ;)

Well, we I tried to accomodate her in many ways. I sat her on my lap and fingerred her tight little pussy while we made out. "Are you into girls?" I asked.

"They aren't my thing..." she said.

I called Wifey over anyway and they started kissing while I sucked the brunette's luscious nipples.

She said to Wifey, "I do like you though! You taste sweet."

Wifey gives me a knowing wink because we both know she tastes like my cock & her pussy because she loves to taste her juices on my mouth after I lick her.

This is getting hot! Literally, we have all been in the Jacuzzi way too long and the heat is starting to make many of us woozy. LOL

I suggest that all 6 of us get a room and continue the fun. It was "ayes" all around!

I ran upstair to reserve the private group room. There is only one big room with privacy and I didn't want to assume that everyone else is into exhibitionism as much as Wifey & me.

In the room, brunette's husband continued playing with the cougar. I decided I wanted to taste that sweet pussy I had been fingering in the Jacuzzi and buried my face between brunette's legs. Tasty! Wifey paired up with the cougar's boyfriend who was a few years younger than his girlfriend & he started giving Wifey a full body massage. Wifey melts when it comes to massages & it turns out he has been trained!

Wifey was done getting her massage & brunette's husband finished up with cougar. Brunette & I were trying all kinds of positions and being watched intently by the other four. She was sucking my cock & it felt so good I needed a distraction. I suggested we 69. She flipped around on me deep throating me and giving me a good sloppy blow job just how I like it while I buried my face in her pussy.

I heard Wifey blurt out, "Shit, that looks fucking hot!"

That was all Wifey & cougar's boyfriend could take of watching & they had to start fucking. I knew I was getting close to coming again, so I suggested that brunette ride my dick for a while. She hopped on and bounced up and down on my dick her beautiful large tits slapping together as we fucked. We kept going for what seemed like forever. "I want you to cum." I whispered although I was sure I had already made her cum a few times but, everyone's sex sounds are different.

She whispered back, "I already have cum... four times."

I said to her, "I want your pussy to sing for me once more..."

She rode me hard until she came again & I quickly flipped her on her back. It was my turn now. I was in the moment & I completely forgot that not all women are as flexible as my gorgeous Wifey. Luckily, she was as I had her knees up against her ears as I was pile-drive fucking her hard! I could feel the familiar feeling building in my balls again and increased my pace and force. Our lips were locked and tongues were hungrily probing each others mouths when I screamed my orgasm deep in her dripping wet pussy!

This was a good night.... We all lay there satiated and talking for a while. Brunette's husband was obviously turned on by the show and was pulling on his dick that was now hard again. His sexy wife wrapped her mouth around his cock while he pulled on it. I leaned over to Wifey and said, "You should really help him with that."

She eagerly crawled over to him and began to lick his shaft & balls while he was moaning to his wife, "suck my nipples."

He started to get close to blowing his load. I was so turned on by the show, I buried my face in his wife's freshly fucked and still quivering pussy and lapped hungrily at it while she sucked his nipples and my wife worked his throbbing cock & balls.

Just as brunette started moaning one last orgasm for the night, he told Wifey to come suck his other nipple while he jerked his cock. Both women were sucking his nips while he pulled on his dick hard & fast. Wifey was kneeling over him while she licked & sucked his right nip, when he came he exploded hot jizz all over her tits.

Fucking hot night!

Well, we knew we had to relieve the sitter. Wifey & I were getting dressed talking to the two other couples and how we should do this again some time soon. We kissed our good-byes & headed to the car for our one hour drive home.

It just goes to show you, even though it looked like things weren't going to go well that evening, we ended up having yet another, awesome unexpected orgy!

Oh, the couple that was coming over to our place Saturday night to play, we had a fucking awesome night with them too. We have a date with them on Friday the 24th again.

As Wifey loves to say, "I LOVE SWINGING!!!!"

Busy time coming up...

2012-02-09T20:16:00.000-08:00

By Hubby

Well, it's been forever since we did a proper blog post... this isn't it. However, after taking a few weeks off from the Lifestyle for the holidays we are getting back into the Swing of things. So far we have dates scheduled for the next three weekends. In fact, we are meeting two new couples tomorrow & Saturday alone. Hopefully, that means we will have new fun and salacious adventures to blog about. ;-P***

Swinging FAQ: How Often Should We Play? reposted from SWINGING IN THE SUBURBS

2012-01-26T05:40:00.000-08:00

I’ve been enjoying Life on the Swingset for the last several months. The site’s very clever tagline reads “Life Less Monotonous. Life Less Monogamous.” I really wish I would have thought of that! The site is run by Cooper Becket who is also a contributor over at SexisFun.net. Both sites inspire me to expand my vision for this blog!

I’ve been devouring their blogs and articles, with plans to listen to the pod-casts as soon as possible. (Participating in a pod-cast is on my list to accomplish in 2012.) I also finally took some time tonight and registered to post on the forums at Life on the Swingset.

I was inspired to respond to a post from a new couple wondering how often people usually get together to play. I had posted about our own approach to this question back in 2009. My response today was this:

… I think there are two parts to the frequency question. First one is, how much time do you and your partner have to engage in this hobby? There are a lot of things to consider. How much do you work? Do you have kids? Will you be going out together or separately. I think a lot of couples are excited when they first start out and find themselves going out night after night. It’s so much fun and can be very exhilarating to go through the ritual of ramping-up your sex appeal and getting your flirt on. But what happens to your family, your house, your private relationship, and your life balance when you go out 4 nights in a row to meet potential new playmates?
The second part of the frequency question has to do with how frequently do you hook up with the “same” playmates. Does it start to get weird if you’re seeing the same couple every Friday night? Do they start to feel like they own you, or do you feel like you can’t break the plans if you want to meet someone else? My husband and I play separately (as well as together), and I find that I prefer to have 3 or 4 men that I am seeing at any given time, simply to avoid getting too serious about any one guy in particular. I may want to play about 2-4 times a month, but seeing the same person that often may turn into something deeper or more intense than I am interested in pursuing.
So ultimately, this is a personal decision and you might find that you need to re-calibrate your frequency comfort level every so often.

You should visit the forums at Life on the Swingset and share your own thoughts. Or feel free to drop a comment here, if you prefer.

Read the original post at Swinging In The Suburbs...

A Conversation I had at Our Swinger's Club

2011-12-28T05:21:00.000-08:00

by Hubby

(The names are changed to protect the naughty.)

I am standing over by one of the pool tables talking to Miranda when Sandra, the woman of the couple my wife and I played with the previous week walks up...

Sandra says, "Oh hey... Have you guys met? Hubby (me), this is Miranda. Miranda, this is Hubby."

I say, "Yes, we've met. We've had sex!"

Miranda with a big smile, "Twice!"

"So you have already met then." says Sandra laughing.

Swinger Disaster - Couldn't Get It Up! Is All Lost?

2011-11-30T11:22:00.001-08:00

Swinger Disaster - Couldn't Get It Up! Is All Lost?

From: DanAndJenn | Sep 1, 2008 | 99,251 views

Swingers and Threesomes - http://www.askdanandjennifer.com/swingers-threesome/

My wife and I just had our first swinger encounter, but I was so nervous that I had difficulty getting an erection. Do you have any tips to help me overcome this problem?

That Wasn't Quite What We Were Expecting

2011-11-28T11:54:00.001-08:00

by Hubby

A couple weeks in the making and our first orgy we were hosting was starting to come apart... All the guests had been confirmed, but this was Thanksgiving weekend, time for families. S, our favorite Unicorn, texted me, she was going to spend the holiday with family but hoped she would be back in time for the fun on Saturday. We had gone from 6 confirmed to 5 confirmed. 2 women & 3 guys.

The only guest we didn't already know intimately was the male guest of the other female that was invited, M. M sent me an email on a Lifestyle web site, he wanted to introduce himself. He said his particular kink was he liked toys; good start. He said he would bring a part of his sex toy collection. Awesome! Then he said, I only fuck D.

Ummm, what?

He went on that he is primarily a voyeur, she is free to play with whomever she wants but he only plays with her.

This is not what we were planning.

The day arrived, I checked with S, no she wasn't going to be able to make it. OK, we are going to be 5.

The night came, we set everything up. The guests started to arrive. Everyone was getting along great. M showed us the toys he brought & we all had a few cocktails & got comfortable. We moved to the playroom.

Now, I'll admit freely, I have a prescription for Viagra. I ran out & forgot to fill the prescription. I don't always need it, but it doesn't hurt. I wish I had. I put on my stainless steel cock ring just to help, but it can only do so much.

We got down to playing. D is very fascinated with Wifey and started with her. B, M and I sat watching the girls play. I sipped on my drink. This was hot. From some prompting, B moved in to help D out with Wifey. Getting really hot!

D decided that since B was doing pretty well getting Wifey going that she would move on to me. She ordered me out of my clothes. I eagerly complied. She started sucking my cock like a beast.

M started working some of his toy magic on the girls. I decided to refill my drink. You can probably see where this is going; no hard-on pills & lots of down time away from the action plus, during the downtime, I would sip on my drink.

Wifey was the center of attention. That's good. She was sucking on B's cock while D & I alternated eating her out. M was eating D out. Time to change up. B went down on Wifey & I ate D until she squealed an orgasm and said, "Too sensitive! Too sensitive!"

I took the opportunity to excuse myself to the restroom. I came back to find the three of them surrounding Wifey dripping wax from a candle on her body. Not really what she was into, but she was game.

D had a new idea, she wanted to tie Wifey up on my weight bench and fuck her with a strap-on. We laid her out, her hands were tied. I went and got an extension cord for M, he brought the Hitachi Magic Wand too. Wifey was massaged to an orgasm and D put on a huge strap-on & fucked her good. Eventually though, being tied up & immobile was making Wifey a little jumpy. We moved back to the play area. By this point, with all the downtime, no Viagra & too much booze I had lost my wood. I pulled on my pants & watched the action.

Fast forward some. D, M, B & I are all playing with Wifey. I ate her until she came while she was sucking B's cock again. I know Wifey, she needed to get fucked. My dick was not helping me out, M only fucks D so B was the man for the job. B is a very tall good looking black guy he slipped is cock into Wifey and started banging her good. I knew she was annoyed that I wasn't in on the action, but unless Wifey was gonna take the time to fluff me (she always can get me hard) I was done. I watched for a while, Wifey always looks so good when she is getting fucked.

At this point I figured, maybe if I ate something and took a break, I could get back in the game. I went up to the kitchen to have some of the snacks I had prepared for the party. D & M followed me up too. We hung out eating and talking. Soon after, B & Wifey came up, they were done. We all talked some more & I said, "Ok, who's ready for round two?"

B said, "Actually... I gotta run."

"Damn" ok, well that still leaves the 4 of us. D&M said they had to go too. No!!!!

That was it. We kissed our good-byes, thanked our guests for "coming" and cleaned up the house for the night.

For our first orgy that we were hosting at our house, that wasn't quite what we were expecting.

Wifey & I did our reconnect the next morning. After swinging we always like to reconnect with each other by having some Hubby/Wifey sex. It was good, but she admitted, the night before, she really wanted me to fuck her while we were all playing.

We have a sitter for the whole weekend this up-coming weekend. I think Wifey & I can take things up a notch again. ;-)

"Is Somebody Missing A Thong? I Just Found One In My Pants!"

2011-11-19T19:03:00.001-08:00

by Hubby

We decided last weekend we wanted to hit our Lifestyle club this Friday night. We had made some good contacts two weeks ago when we went and even though we didn't play, we wanted to see where things would go this time.

The sitter was arranged for. I had to give her a ride to our house & traffic was bad. We ended up getting home an hour later than I would have liked. Wifey had already gotten tarted up and had dinner waiting. When we got home, I immediately ran upstairs to shower & shave; no woman wants to lick stubbly balls. I shaved & got ready as fast as I could. We kissed our son good-night & ran to the car.

It's over an hour drive so we got there in about 50 minutes. We checked in at the desk a little after 9 pm & went to the coat room to drop off our coats & the party bag . Working the small shop that sells lingerie & sex toys was M, the very hot female half of the couple we spent most of the evening talking to two weeks ago. Interestingly enough, she & her husband work in the club but they haven't ever actually full-swapped. Wifey & I flirted with M for a while when someone told us the Meeting was starting. We took our bottle, BYOB, to the bar. We barely made the meeting.

Staking out a spot near the dance floor we chatted with many couples. Some we have known for a months, others for a couple weeks & some were new to us. While we stood chatting I introduced myself to a woman I had recognized from their couples profile on SLS.com and we started chatting. R the husband of a couple that we met 2 weeks ago that was understandably enamored with Wifey asked her to dance. Not to be outdone, I asked the new chick to dance as well. We continued the chat on the dance floor & then I asked if I could sneak a kiss. (Kissing Bandit strikes again.) We made out while dancing & the song ended. We all went back over by the bar to start chatting again. By this time, R's wife had reemerged after having changed into a very tiny thong, bra & thigh high stockings. Even though she was pretty well occupied last time we were at the club, she remembered me. She said, "You are "Nipples" right."

I have my nipples pierced & I wear spiked nipple shields. "Yup, that's me." & I pulled up my t-shirt to show her again. She took the opportunity to lick my nip a bit. This night was going well already!

We continued our chat with R & his wife and it became palpable, we all wanted to fuck! I don't remember who suggested we go upstairs but R's wife said, I have an idea. She quickly rounded up 5 or 6 more very horny people. We wanted the BIG room. Basically the entire room is filled wall to wall with three king sized beds pushed together.

I noticed the chick I had danced with sitting by herself. Wifey and I asked where her husband was. "He went upstairs with another woman."

Wifey said it first, "You are left here by yourself? We don't do that! We only play together. For us it's all about sharing the experiences together."

I asked, "Are you sitting here by yourself? You should come upstairs with us? We've got a group going up to play."

"Yeah, I'd like to come."

We started to find the rest of of the group. Dancing chick was talking to one of the single guys that comes to the club. "I'll catch up with you guys later. I'm going with him for now."

"Ok, have fun."

We all start to head upstairs. I tell Wifey, "I'm getting the Party Bag." We have a beach bag we keep various lubes, toys, gloves, cologne, gum & a big metal box of 50 condoms we bought from Costco. We've learned after not having our supplies to always come prepared now.

I get the bag & I walk into the room. There are about 4 half naked people already starting to get busy. I grab something out of the bag & excuse myself for a minute. I need some privacy so I can put on two metal cock rings. One goes around my cock & balls & the other around the base of my cock. I get back & Wifey & R are making out in the center of the giant bed, R's wife is naked & sucking one cock while another guy has his lips wrapped around one of her nipples. At the other end of the bed, two more couples are getting down to eating some pussy and touching. Hmmm... Where do I jump in? Well, I see R's wife's pussy being unattended to and decide, that's where I need to go. I slide over on the bed and lick her other nipple working my way down to her wet pussy while her mouth bobs up and down on a cock.

One thing you realize in this sort of situation, things start to blur together. I ate out R's wife for a while & decided Wifey needed some double teaming as well so I went over to her. She was stroking R's cock while he was fingering her and eventually going down on her. I pressed my mouth to hers and slipped my tongue into her mouth letting her taste the pussy juice on my lips. Nobody kisses like my girl!

R's wife was already starting to fuck one of the other guys giving her attention.

Once again things start to blur. People are fucking, sucking hard cocks & licking hot wet pussies all around me. "Well", I realize, and say to Wifey, "I guess THIS is our first orgy!"

My gorgeous girl at this point has her lips wrapped around R's throbbing cock & is bobbing & sucking like only she can. She mumbles an "Uh-huh!" with R's dick in her mouth. "Good girl!"

Everything blurs... I kiss and fondle one of the other women in the room for a while. R's wife has moved on & R has decided he needs to slip inside her for a while himself. When he does this, I take my opportunity to go down on Wifey and lick & finger her dripping pussy until she comes. Wifey is always at her best at the club, she is naturally pretty loud, but since we have a young child at home, she stifles her vocalizations at home pretty well. In the club, there is nothing holding her back, she had an orgasm. I move up her body so she can taste again all the flavors on my lips. I need to fuck this gorgeous creature! I slip my cock in and we fuck for a while. The room is a blur of bodies, a din of moans and flesh slapping on flesh.

Then, behind us. We start to hear some shouting & 2 people storm out. After them, about three other people decide they have satisfied their needs & they get up to leave as well. I guess that just leaves the ones that are committed to some real Swinging. R & his wife and Wifey & me. We are all just kind of laying there trying to wrap our noodles around what happened that started the shouting match and the mass exodus. Then it occurs to me, "why do we care?" I start kissing R's wife again & Wifey & R pair off again with him fingering and licking her delectable pussy. I take the opportunity to go down on R's wife too.

I have a flash of brilliance, why are we pairing off? We need take this to the next level. I say, "We should make a circle."

R's wife asked "What do you mean?"

I say, "I'll eat you, you suck R while R is eating Wifey and Wifey will be sucking my cock." We all immediately assumed the positions. This was hot!

After we all enjoyed licking and sucking the tingly bits, R was the first one that made his move. He jumped up to get a condom. He knew what he wanted, to sink his dick into my gorgeous wife.

Things blur... I excused myself. I had to pee. I washed up, nobody likes to taste pee on your dick. I came back to an awesome sight of my Wife getting pounded. My problem was, when you have to pee, you lose your hard on. R's wife worked my dick with her lips again. I didn't want to break the mood for everyone, but when I get a little floppy, the only thing guaranteed to get me hard is Wifey's mouth slurping on my cock. I said, "Baby, I need fluffing." By this time, we are pretty sure R had come. We aren't completely sure because he was so quiet, but... it looked like he blew his load while he was buried in Wifey. And he had pulled out & laid down to watch his wife & my wife working my cock & balls.

Wifey did her magic. I was hard as a rock again. Wifey got me a condom & slipped it on me. R's wife climbed on me cowgirl style and bounced around on my dick for a while. It was starting to feel too good, I needed to change positions before I popped. I flipped her off me and she got on her knees with her face resting on her husbands chest. Wifey at this point had decided she wasn't done sucking cock & was working R's dick with her mouth again. This looks so damn hot!

I was pounding R's wife doggy and pulled her head back by her hair to slip my tongue in her mouth. She moaned when I pulled her hair. Like Wifey, she clearly likes getting her hair pulled.

I decided I want to change position one more time. I want to her facing me while we fuck. I flip her over, she has her head on her husband's chest like a pillow & I lift her thighs up so I can slip my dick into her. This is so hot! My wife is still sucking R's dick like a ravenous beast. I am pounding that pussy hard and fast, skin slapping on skin. After a banging away for a while, I feel that familiar feeling boiling in my balls. I say, "I think I'm gonna cum. Is that ok?"

R's wife moans, "Oh yes..."

I pound faster & harder! Unlike R, it's no secret when I cum. "Ahhhhhh!!!!" I grabbed her ass and pulled her tight against me to bury myself as deep as possible when my orgasm exploded. Oh that was good... Since I wasn't sure if she had come I went down on her again. I licked & fingered her until I felt her pussy spasmed. Not a peep out of her. I never realized how much I appreciate Wifey's orgasmic vocalizations until we played with R & his wife.

After her orgasm, she got overly sensitive to stimulation and started to push me away. "He's the Energizer Bunny", says Wifey.

All of us satisfied, we lay on the bed chatting for a while about what happened. I blurt out, "Well, it was really great meeting you two!" And we all laugh.

R decides he's ready for more and is stroking his cock. He wants to share with his wife. He jerks his dick over her until he blows a stream of hot sticky cum all over her tits.

Well, we decide it's time to clean up and get dressed. I pull my pants on, something falls out of the leg, "Is somebody missing a thong? I just found one in my pants!" R's wife said they were hers and stuffed them in her pocket laughing.

We all went downstairs. Wifey & I clearly with some hard-core fuckhead. We see the chick I danced with sitting at a table by herself. I say, "Hey, why didn't you come?"

She said she played with the single guy.

I try to be funny & ask her if she came.

She says yes, but after finding out what was going on in our room she would have rather come with us.

We make Swinger small talk. She says her mother lives with them so they have live in child care. I say, "With Grandma home, I suppose you don't host much. LOL" Wifey & I say since we have three floors in our house we like to host, so maybe we can set something up soon.

Her husband finally comes down during this conversation. Looks like we have made another contact for playtime.

"Last Call!"

We kiss our good-byes with the friends that were in our very first orgy! Fun times!

We do our one hour drive home... Wifey, says she is tired. I am too, but I know that once I get her in bed, I will need to eat my favorite pussy before I go to fall asleep. I went down on her until she was dripping a puddle and moans her orgasm. Ok, I need to sink my cock in my hot wife. I need to feel a hot wet pussy without a condom & nobody's is better than my wife's. We fuck missionary, I know she is tired so I'm not going to make her work this time. She comes with a loud "Oh God!" And that's it for me. I blow deep inside her.... Ahhh.. Post-swinging sex with your wife is some of the best.

Ummm, Honey... I Think I Just Set-up an Orgy at Our House.

2011-11-15T17:35:00.001-08:00

By Hubby

"He-he...I'm giddy with naughtiness...lol!!!"

So a couple days ago I got a text from the single guy our favorite Unicorn, S, brought over two weeks ago. He was texting me saying what a great time he had & he asked if we were up for getting together again soon. Now, I'm not Bi, neither is B, as far as I know, and as much as I love Wifey, me and another guy playing with her isn't quite the enjoyable experience for me as she and I playing with another girl is for her. Wifey loves playing with girls so we both enjoy a good FMF. We've done an MFM, but let's face it, sometimes you can feel a little left out watching your wife get fucked while you wait your turn. We still haven't graduated to full DP and Wifey has a hard time concentrating on sucking cock when she is getting fucked good. With that in mind, I said to B, let me check my contacts & see if I can find a girl that would like to join us. I suggested if he knew of any chicks to let me know. Of course, I said I would check with S to find out if she was up for a repeat. S, being a hot young single woman means that her dance card fills up fast so I wasn't going to put all my eggs in one basket; I needed options. Remember, I'm the networker in this household.

I decided to check with another very hot woman, D, we have played with in the past that is married, but they play separate. I sent a text saying that we were thinking of having a small get together the Friday or Saturday after Thanksgiving. Nothing over the top, just Wifey & Me, B & Unicorn S and, hopefully, D & her playmate. I was surprised by the very enthusiastic sounding reply I got later that day. D said she & her playmate were very, very interested.

I sent a text to Wifey at work with all the details from my conversation with D. Her reply at the thought that I was setting up an actual orgy in our house in 2 weeks,

"He-he...I'm giddy with naughtiness...lol!!!"

That's my girl!

Awesome, things were coming together. I just wasn't sure what day would be best. Unicorn S can be very busy. I texted her this afternoon the details I had in mind so far: small gathering of about 6 hot & very horny Swingers at our house Friday the 25th or Saturday the 26th. Earlier tonight my cell rang, it was S. She was very, very enthusiastic about the idea of 6 Swingers getting together in our playroom, but Saturday was the only day she would be available. That's all I needed. I sent out the word to all the guests, "S is on board too! It's officially scheduled for the night of Saturday the 26th. Orgy at our house!"

I've been sending and responding to a flurry of texts all evening... Who knew this whim would turn out to be considered such a universally good idea? ;-)

I guess the old saying is true, "If you want to make an omelette, you gotta break some eggs."

Or maybe the Swinger version should be, "If you wanna have an orgy, you gotta spread some legs."

Now up until this point our blogs have been about past events. I am breaking with our traditional format by blogging about an event we have coming up. Hopefully, this sense of optimism and excitement that everyone invited seems to be feeling will carry on through our planned evening and that will be a great blog post on it's own.

To be continued...

Wait! Did we just get stood up?

2011-11-11T16:19:00.001-08:00

By Hubby

One thing you learn in the Lifestyle is nothing happens the way you expect it. A while back we got an email from a couple that piqued our interest. After emailing & chatting on Yahoo IM with them a few times we made a date to go out dancing with them; Wifey loves to dance. We got the sitter, got ourselves all tramped up *LOL* and went to meet them at the agreed club address. All that was there was a bowling alley. A REALLY dumpy bowling alley. The club was gone! "Wha?!?" We decided to wait for the couple & we would then go somewhere else. We waited, and waited and waited.... Where are they? I texted the wife of the couple; I do most of the communicating, Wifey doesn't like doing the networking. She didn't reply back. I called & got voicemail & left a message. Nada there either. We sat & talked about what we should do next. The couple was 45 minutes late, the club was non-existent & we have paid for a sitter already. My cell got a text... FROM THE HUSBAND! He said he had to work & his wife was supposed to tell us days ago. He was really sorry & they still would like to meet us another time. (BTW, they haven't yet.) We said we understood, another time would be fine.

Now what? I said, "Look we are paying the sitter, we are going out & having fun!"

I said, "We are going to the Club!" (Meaning the Lifestyle club we frequent.)

We drove to the liquor store, clubs are usually BYOB. Bought our booze and drove on to to our Club. When we got there we didn't see any of our usual friends. Wifey said, "We are going to be social, come on!"

She saw a couple we had emailed on SwingLifeStyle.com and we approached them. We introduced ourselves to L, the husband, he tapped D on the shoulder as she was talking to the DJ.

D turned around and greeted us like we were old friends. Swingers are so nice! ;) We spent a good portion of the night talking about ourselves, vampires (Wifey & D are vampire fanatics), music & more. We really like these two! Later, a song came on that D & I both liked so we went out & danced together. I took the opportunity to sneak some kissing in. (Wifey, not always in jest, calls me the Kissing Bandit.)

After some dancing, the bar called a "meeting." A meeting is when they introduce all the newbies & everyone does a shot. All the girls that are "late" to the meeting are required to show their tits. Ironically, all the ladies seem to always be "late" to the meeting, even when they are early. Wifey was feeling "comfortable" by then after having a few drinks & started chatting up a couple. Her name was D too & he was M. That was the first time they had been to the Club. Wifey's D was pretty good with knocking back the drinks. Wifey was chatting them up while I went and hung out with the D & L again.

Wifey came & joined us again & sat on a barstool. A, the female half of one of the host couples of the club, came up to say hi & exchange kisses. I reminded A that she had said while we were chatting online once that she wanted to get between my wife's legs. She said, "You're right!" She dropped to the floor and put her face up my wife's skirt and gave her pussy a few kisses & nibbles. Wifey's D sat watching in amazement & hunger, her eyes popping out of her head. I guess we know what she wanted to do. A went back to doing her hosting rounds and Wifey began chatting with D & M again.

I had noticed by then J, the male half of another host couple, chatting with a gorgeous woman at the bar. Well, since Wifey was busy with D&M, I decided to go to go talk to this gorgeous creature at the bar.

We got to chatting about the usual Lifestyle stuff when I noticed there was only one name on her name tag. At our club they give you name tags, couples have both names in blue on the tag (your name on top, your spouses underneath), newbies are in red, and singles just have the one name. I looked at her name tag because I couldn't hear what J said her name was. It had one name on it, "S." I saw the one name and exclaimed, "Oh my God! You are a Unicorn?"

"What's a Unicorn?" she asked looking mildly insulted.

I said, "They are rare, beautiful and magical creatures. Also, it's a name for a single female in the Lifestyle."

She smiled demurely. She must have liked the "beautiful and magical creatures."

We got to talking. She asked about my Wifey because she noticed my name tag had two names. I said, "That's her" and pointed to the hot blonde woman making out with D while her husband, M, looked on in awe.

The Unicorn, said "she's having a good time."

"Yes she is! That's my girl!" Next thing I know, the Unicorn & I are kissing and fondling as well. She had luscious round tits & her pussy was hot & very wet.

After a while, Wifey comes up for air from making out with D, D is getting a little too tipsy & her husband is talking about getting her out of there. Wifey tries to get their information, but alas it was lost. :(

Now no longer occupied, Wifey walks up to me and sees me making out with yet another woman for the second time that evening. "Again?!" She exclaims. (Kissing Bandit strikes again.)

I say, "She's a Unicorn! She's a lot of fun!"

I introduce Wifey & the Unicorn and they hit it off immediately. They begin kissing. The three of us talk about going to one of the playrooms as we are all quite heated and ready to fuck.

"LAST CALL!"

"NO!!!!"

The Unicorn says, "We can still go to my room, I'm staying over for the night."

"We can't, we have sitter waiting for us."

We got her cell, she got both of ours. We kissed our good-byes....

Wifey & I go to the coat room to get our coats & the Party Bag. D&L were getting their stuff ready to go too.

"It was so great to finally meet you two!" D & I started making out again.

Wifey is standing next to L, the husband, and says, "Again?! Would you just stop it already?"

I say, "Oh shut up & kiss him good-bye!"

She shrugs her shoulders, they look at each other & proceed to kiss long deep kisses. That's my girl!

Having said & kissed our good-byes we drive home giddy with the new contacts we have made.

Well, Wifey lost D&M's info. :( But, we still chat with D&L, we haven't played with them... Yet.

Of course, the next day. When I got a text from, S, the Unicorn saying she really liked us & hoped we could get together soon, we were giddy. Since that time she has become our favourite Unicorn to play with, but those stories will be future posts.

Yes, we got stood up, but we turned a potential Lifestyle bust into one of the most fun evenings we have in the lifestyle. Nothing ever happens the way you expect in the Lifestyle, enjoy the surprises & make the best of the negatives.

How To Find Your Swinging Comfort Zone

2011-11-10T07:31:00.000-08:00

by Dan & Jennifer

Swinging seems taboo, but more and more couples are talking about it as a way to spice up their sex lives. Swinging can be fun and can involve flirting, roleplaying, watching or going all the way with other couples. Not everything is right for everybody though, so here’s how to find your swinging comfort zone so you and your partner can have fun and have a fun, exciting sex life!

How can someone interested in swinging establish their own comfort zone and boundaries so they can have a fun and exciting sexual experience?

Challenging Your Comfort Zones

Many couples are afraid to start swinging because – duh – it’s completely out of your sexual comfort zone. Especially if you’ve been with your partner for years, starting to swing is just like dating all over again. You’re nervous meeting people, nervous about having a physical relationship with them…it’s not at all like the comfortable sex you have with your partner! Don’t worry though – swinging is commonly misunderstood. It’s not just a massive orgy all the time where everyone does everything with each other. Swingers are just adults looking to have a good time in a variety of different ways – so it’s time to challenge your comfort zones without jumping right out of them.

What Are Your Comfort Zones?

Even if your comfortable with your partner, you might not be in sync with them when it comes to thinking about swinging. You and your partner may have completely different ideas about what you want to accomplish while swinging and what swinging means to each of you. Find out what your partner is comfortable with and what their comfort zones are, and talk about what yours are too. Think about what would possibly make youuncomfortable. Decide what the boundaries are, what you’re ok with or not ok with. Write them down! Do you want to involve oral sex but not actual intercourse, or do you want to watch only? You don’t want to find out something is not ok after it’s already happened. The best thing you can do is communicate with your partner and talk, talk, talk – and then talk some more! The biggest reason that swinging doesn’t succeed with couples is because they didn’t take the time to discuss their thoughts and feelings about swinging before and after.

Reviewing And Redoing The Rules

The rules of swinging don’t change during swinging, but they can certainly change before and after. Just because you and your partner have agreed on a set of rules for what is ok and not ok during swinging doesn’t mean it has to stay that way forever. You and your partner both have the right to review the rules and redo them at your discretion – just don’t forget to talk about it! Above all, practice safe sex if you’re having sex with other people and be smart about it. Make sure everyone is in agreement about what is going to happen, including the other couple(s) and everyone is comfortable with what is going to happen. Even though the rules don’t change during swinging, if someone is getting hurt or you’re uncomfortable with something, you certainly have the right to stop.

Not Always Fun....

2011-10-14T15:43:00.000-07:00

I realize I haven’t written much on the blog; only replies to emails. So, I thought I would bring up something that just happened yesterday and solicit opinions & comments.

Even though we enjoy our lifestyle choice as swingers, there can be some downsides as with anything else. We had taken a short break from playing as we have a child & the new school season was starting up. However, this week, we decided to start reaching out & setting up play-dates and meeting new people again. Hubby set-up two dates Wednesday night to meet two new couples in the next two weeks. We were jazzed.

Now, we have been friends with the first couple we ever played with ever since that first time on October 20th, 2010. (Yup, we popped our Swinger cherries almost one year ago today.) So Hubby Facebook messaged our friends saying, “We got our Mojo back! Two dates with two couples for the next two Saturdays!”

She replied back, “That’s awesome! We are having our first house party for our Lifestyle friends Saturday night to celebrate (her husband’s) birthday!”

Hubby replied back, “Ummm… That sounds fun. I’m a little hurt we weren’t invited though.”

She says, “Well, M&S will be there and I know you guys had that argument a long time ago.”

Hubby said, “You mean you invited M&S? The M&S that you are always saying you don’t like?”

She replied, “You can’t come anyway, you already have plans.”

Hubby said, “You didn’t know we had plans until just now.”

That was it.

So… Feeling confused & somewhat dejected, Hubby decided to relay the whole story to the Sage of Swingers, Mr. SwapFu of the SwapFu Podcast; Hubby Yahoo chats with him.

Mr. SwapFu wisely said, “They can invite or not invite anyone they want to their party. You don’t have the right to be annoyed about that.”

Hubby reluctantly agreed with that opinion.

Mr. SwapFu continued, “However, it does seem mean for her to tell you about their party and then tell you they weren’t inviting you.”

So, there we are. We still consider them good friends, but we wonder if they say the same about us.

One more interesting bit of information. They have never invited us to their house. They said, “We don’t have Lifestyle friends over. We don’t want the neighbors or our kids to get suspicious.” It does seem an interesting reversal that now they are throwing a Swinger House Party at their house.

Are we being too thin-skinned? What do you guys think?

Public and Group Sex at A Swinger Club?

2011-09-23T06:25:00.000-07:00

Curious Couple? How to Ease Into Swinging...

2011-09-22T11:43:00.000-07:00

DRAMA...

2011-08-16T04:06:00.000-07:00

I always wondered what the whole "No Drama" in people's profiles meant, and why in the world they would put that in a profile. I understand that swinging could have some sticky, not in a good way, situations. Especially in the beginning. We have been doing this for less than a year, but boy have we learned a lot! Especially about drama.
I'm not going to lie, I have glossed over a few things in my writing, but everything is not always sunshine and roses. I figure people are here to read about sex, because that is something I like to do! We have had a few cases of our own couple drama. Just between us. Working out the kinks so to speak...the thing I've had a problem with the most was inappropriate texting...not on hubby's part so much, but one of the women we have been with. It is her standard M.O. with the guys she plays with...it pissed me off, and I said to stop. I'm not one to checkup on hubby, but I ran across it when I was answering back for him while he was driving. I didn't like what I saw so I asked them to stop again. It became a big problem when I saw it again. We really don't fight but I lost my shit about this, no lie! I was just like back the fuck off! But that has been it for us personally.
One night when we were at the club, a friend asked hubs if a certain sexting friend of ours had ever been with a married man, outside of the whole swinging thing. Hubby was friends with her, and she had shared a lot of information with him about certain things. We knew she was seeing part of a couple on the side! WTF...if you are swinging and you have to do it on the side than something is totally wrong!!!!! But what she was asking about had nothing to do with that at all. It amazes me that adults can still act like they are in high school.
Needless to say...shit hit the fan!!!! There were texts and phone calls and all kinds of shit going on. I wasn't part of it, but hubby got sucked into it, and it made for some very uncomfortable times. He did nothing wrong, at all. The woman that the rumor was about even said it. It was someone getting touchy about stuff that wasn't even happening...so it was ridiculous.
Looking back on this debacle, we realized it was part of a problem that we had heard about in clubs...the whole cliquey thing. This was a group of regulars that we kind of got involved with peripherally...Mrs. X got upset about her husband telling me I was his favorite and took it out on my awesomely sweet, always polite to a fault, husband.
I said that we don't put up with this bullshit and we only went back to the club one more time. Which was awesome, because none of the bitches were there!!! It was a great night, but I still said that was a no go anymore. We met a hot, sexy unicorn that night and our luck, and whole approach to swinging changed after that!!!

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2011-07-07T10:36:00.000-07:00

Sorry to disappoint everyone, but this is Hubby & this isn't really a full blog post. I just wanted to post a link to a friend's page. Boris of the Boris & Doris Swinger's Podcast is creating custom made sex toys out of stainless steel and is starting to take orders.
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tits out, pants down...

2011-05-19T06:55:00.000-07:00

Sorry this has taken so long to post. Life is busy and there is lots of awesome swinging stuff going on that I will document later!!! I had started working on a different post, but realized it wouldn't make sense until I did this one first. Our last trip to the swingers club kind of sucked...the birthday girl was too drunk to fuck :( so not too much went on. It just wasn't a great night all around. It sucks to go out and feel like you are wasting time, money...energy.
  Hubby was chatting with a friend on SLS and mentioned a cute blonde we saw at the club one time we were there. He said "oh yes, that is Mrs. X...we've played before...she and hubby are very fun!!". Cool. That was the end of that, or so we thought. A few days later we got an email from Mr. & Mrs. X saying they were really interested in meeting us. Woo hoo...they go to the club one specific night every week and next time we go, stop by and say hi! Well alrighty!!!
   We weren't planning on going anytime soon, but we unexpectedly got the chance to go on the night they were going to be there. We went with no expectations whatsoever! We were just going to have some fun together. Well we got there, we got ourselves situated and went on over and introduced ourselves. They invited us to sit down and we started talking and getting to know each other. I agreed that she was hot, but from the pictures I had seen of him, I wasn't so sure, not really my type. But they were both so welcoming and made us feel instantly at ease. After chatting for awhile, hubby looked at me and said "all good?" and I shook my head yes. The sexy accent was it for me...lol! So we chatted and drank a little bit, then they suggested dancing...
   I love to dance, but I'm picky about the music, unless I've had a few cocktails. Well, I had had a few cocktails, so I was ready to go...hubby even came out of his dancing shell...clearly dancing was the way to get them into bed! We just kept dancing and grinding and touching and feeling and kissing and kissing...the next thing I know, my tits are hanging out and being sucked on...her pants were off somewhere on the dance floor...there was a blur of lips, arms, legs and bodies in a group everywhere.
  Next thing I know, she has her hands on both of their cocks and said, "they are ready to go, wanna get a room?". So we traipsed around a bit, not sure if the downstairs rooms were open, well the rope wasn't on, so we went for it. They took us to a specially decorated room that we hadn't seen before. It was very sexy, a low and wide platform bed, dark paint, hanging fabrics...very Arabian Nights. So everyone went to take showers. Once we were all back in the room, we had the rules discussion. Condoms a must, no anal, girl on girl was ok, the usual normal stuff...lol! then we started getting down to business.
  Now, I'm used to my husband, and obviously a very, very spoiled girl...Mr. X was very, very nice with a sexy accent...foreplay was fine, but not up to my usual standards...it really seemed like he couldn't wait to get to the penetrating...he was in a hurry to get the condom on and get to it. I had an orgasm and then bam...he was right up in there! while on the other hand...hubby was treating Mrs. X to his luxuriously sensuous style...I was thinking she was really lucky...we were finished before they barely began :( So Mr. X cuddled me while we kind of chatted and watched my husband giving it to Mrs. X.
  They finally finished! Yay! And everyone was chatting and getting dressed. Mrs. X had made a comment that my hubby was the best she has had in a long time...I concur ;) things were peachy, we had a snack and went on our merry way...neither one of us had any problems, but there wasn't an awesome click. We did hang out with them again a few times, and we played as well a few more times. The best part was the dance floor seduction for sure. After the last time we played, the shit hit the fan! Mr. X said some things to me that pissed his wife off and started some drama. We haven't seen them since! But that is for my next post...

Rainbows and Unicorns...

2011-03-20T11:49:00.000-07:00

  Unicorns...the mythical creature that swingers swear really exists and everyone is on the lookout for. Well, who doesn't want a single female to liven up the situation? We definitely talked about how cool it would be to find one...hubby and I were both intrigued by the prospect. I had previous threesome experiences that weren't played out all the ways that I would have liked...and I really wanted to play with a girl and really get to focus on her more that the few swinging experiences we had had allowed me to.
  So one day, hubby and I were sitting next to each other at our laptops...I was on facebook looking at something and this picture caught my attention. It was this really hot chick and I said.."Wow! She is hot...look at her!", and of course he agreed with me. So later on he was on SLS and he noticed a unicorn and clicked on her profile. He read it and said "she sounds promising, but it says she is on a break". So hubby was looking at her pictures and he said "wow...she is really hot!" and I happened to look over. I said, "Oh my goodness that is Ms. X's friend that I was looking at earlier!!!!". He decided to email her just to say hello and let her know we had some friends in common.
  So when we got an email back saying she was only on a break from some people we couldn't believe it!!! She obviously was very interested in us...she wanted to set up a day to meet. What luck!!! We had only been swinging for a few weeks at this point...how crazy that we found a unicorn that wanted to get with us as soon as possible...was it too good to be true?
  Suprisingly it wasn't!! She could only meet during the day, so we had to take a day off since we both work pretty normal hours. We set up a meeting place at a coffee shop fairly early in the morning. The build up was excruciating...we couldn't wait for said day to arrive. We were trying to figure out our rules for the particular situation and what we hoped would happen.
  Well, the day arrived and we were off getting the day underway with our regular morning routine, driving our child to school and getting to the coffee shop at the appointed time. We made it a little early so we ordered our drinks and had a little snack. She texted that she was running a little late. Hubby asked if she wanted a drink, she told him what so her went and ordered it. It was ready and waiting for her just like us when she arrived. Wow! She was hot and had an awesome personality. We sat and talked for hours and singed a few ears in the place with the things we were talking about...we got to share and realized we all got along really well...this was most definitely a go!!! So we ended up talking about porn shops so we took a little field trip to one...we had fun exploring together and talking and laughing it up...there was a lot of flirting and innuendo going on :) After our field trip was over, she invited us back to her place for the good times to roll!
  We went right in for the kill...I loved the lack of pretense...we all knew what we we wanted and weren't afraid to get it. We went straight up to the bedroom and she made the first move and asked if we cared if she got more comfortable. She took her shirt off and her pants and sat down on the bed and told me to get over there!!!! I am usually pretty aggressive and know what I want, but with girls I tend to be more shy and submissive. I took my shirt off and things started to get going. We started kissing and boy was that hot, then hubby joined in. Clothes started flying and body parts were being caressed and kissed. Somehow taking pictures was suggested. So while all of this was going on, pictures were being taken!!!! So hot! I was standing up and she was sucking on my nipples and kissing up and down my hips and thighs, she said, "these need to come off, " and she pulled my panties slowly down. Hubby was removing hers at the same time. I ended up on my back being kissed and touched everywhere...it was heaven!!! She was so tender and sweet with her kisses. Then she really got down to business going down on me and really going to town...it was such a blur of awesomeness and we have the pictures to remember it by! I came a few times, I was going down on her, hubby and I were fucking and it was so hot and the next thing I remember he was going down on her and she told me to sit on her face, more like demanded me to. We were 69ing and hubby and I were taking turns licking her, then we both were giving hubby a blow job. But the clock was ticking and real life was calling. We had to finish up because it had been a long day and kids were getting ready to come home. So hubby ended up fucking her to finish and we hurried up and got dressed and ran out on our merry way. So sorry to fuck and run but that is sometime how it goes. So we had a very interesting discussion on the way home drenched in this aura of bliss/craziness. It was great, it was wild, it was a really fun experience...can't wait to do it again with some minor changes :)

Our first swingers club!!!!!

2011-02-21T04:43:00.000-08:00

  Things had been going quite swinging-ly...we had hooked up with our first couple a few times...one time just soft swap...and we had decided to go to our first swingers club together!!! We had only been swinging for a few weeks and we were really excited to take the next step in our lifestyle experience!!!
  We decided to go to the club that is closest to us, which is not really close...it is like 45 miles away out in the sticks!!! We were getting incredibly excited and nervous all at the same time!!! We weren't sure of what to expect or what to wear, or what to bring...pretty overwhelming. Hubby and I have hung out at tons of goth clubs and freaky places, but this was something different and new for both of us. I had been to an S &M club in New York City during college...that was a whole other experience I must say...it was a special treat from my friends!!! So, I had that in mind and figured it couldn't be any worse or be more debaucherous...hubby not so much...he was very nervous, about a lot of things. Good thing we started IM'ing a couple that hosts at the club and we were able to ask them lots and lots of questions before hand. They were so awesome and helpful! They were able to tell us what to expect and help pique our interest even more...
  So club night came and we came home from work, showered, shaved and got dressed. The babysitter came and we were off!!! Following the maze of directions to the hidden den of sin...yipee!!!!! We got there and had to do all the sign in procedures and then we were given a tour of all of the facilities and went over the rules, the female of the couple that gave us the tour kept getting in between me and hubby. She was pretty openly ogling him and it was kind of off-putting. Then we had to check in our bottle at the bar. We were given a number and had to tell them what we were mixing with. Then we were able to meet with our special friends and find a table to sit down at.
  We were just trying to take everything in and figure out the scope of what was going on. There was a contest going on that evening, as it seems almost every evening. The couple that gave us the tour was being a little too hands on and not getting the hint that we weren't interested. We were just trying to loosen-up, but that didn't really happen! We were very clique-y and didn't stray very far from each other the whole night. We talked to people and had some interesting interactions and noticed that we were pretty young and very hot compared to most of the crowd!!
  After teasing each other most of the night, we finally decide to go find a room and let the fun begin!!! This was what we were looking forward to of course...so we went and found a playroom to get the party started! The sex with them is always hot, and it got off to a great start...my hubby going down on me, her going down on her hubby and the two of us were laying back enjoying the ride and then the other hubby and I started kissing. There was lots of moaning, groping and pleasure being shared all around. After sucking other hubby off for a bit, it was time to put the condom on. Next thing I knew I was being bent over the bed and and he was sliding in...were were fucking and so were our spouses. She and I started kissing while each others hubbies were giving it to us doggie style...then we switched positions and were lying on the bed next to each other...both of us girls were on top riding away...then something happened. My hubby said our code word, meaning he wanted me back. I was really involved with what was going on and didn't hear him right away. When I realized what he said, I also realized the other wife was crying. I wasn't really sure what was going on, but then things got really awkward and strange...she jumped off and started to get dressed. Her hubby didn't really want to let me go, he was holding on to my hips-he finally got the hint and let me go. She kept apologizing and telling us to finish up with her hubby, and that she was just being hormonal. It wasn't going to happen...we don't play without each other, and we didn't want to play with just him, so the experience was ruined after that.
  They got dressed and left the room. Hubby and I stayed and talked and ended up having hot sex, just the two of us. We went downstairs and went to the bar. That is were we found our friends who were talking to the nice couple we met online that eased our fears before we came. Things seemed a little off, but then it was ok. We needed to leave to get home. We said our goodbyes and got in the car...and sighed with relief. We discussed what had happened and how the overall experience was. We decided to not go with our friends again, and to distance ourselves from them because that was some ridiculous drama that we didn't need. Overall it wasn't a terrible time, but we learned a few things and how to handle them or not. We've gone back a few times and have had better/worse experiences but those are best left for another entry.

5 Days Later...

2011-01-22T21:35:00.000-08:00

  We enjoyed ourselves so much our first time swinging...we had lots of hot sex reliving the awesomeness of that first night. Instead of some build up to a comfort level, we went all out full swap right of the bat, and realized that it really worked for us. We talked about what we liked, and what we didn't like, what made us a little twinge-y or uncomfortable. We also went over our rules again...we were unsure about the whole finishing part...we weren't sure how comfortable we were with the guys finishing inside. We agreed that when he got close he would tell me so he could finish with me and the other guy would not finish in me but with his wife. But on the whole, we were really excited for them to come over again!

  In between the days we saw them, my best friend from high school came for a short visit. She had a medical conference she was attending and was going to stay an extra day to hang out with us. I met up with her on a Friday night, and she joined me at a work function with some of my friends...the whole time on the way there, the hubby of the other couple was texting me really dirty stuff. It was hard to keep it hidden from my friends in the car. When I met up with my high school friend, she asked me who was texting me and I said "my boyfriend...lol!". I told her I would explain more inside. I told her we started swinging just the other night...and it was wild!!! She said she wasn't surprised, only that we hadn't started doing it sooner...lol!!!! It was great to share with someone other than my hubby...especially someone that I knew wouldn't judge us, and who actually would understand our reasoning and motivations. So we had a really nice visit, and I couldn't wait for our new swinging friends to come over!

  So they came over and we went down to the playroom and started hanging out and talking. I decided to have a few drinks, which is not something that I usually do and we got the show on the road right away!!!! We started with our spouses and swapped pretty quickly...but this night was a different, a more fun experience for us all...because we kept swapping back and forth and just kept sharing each other in many, many different ways!!!

  My hubby started fucking me from behind while I was going down on her and mashing my face in her pussy! We had a circle of licking and sucking that went on for quite awhile. My favorite part though, was when I was kneeling between both guys, a hand on each cock, alternating between sucking them! I really wish I had a picture of that!!!! Then we moved on to the fucking...damn, so hot!!!! There was all kinds of noises...and sounds of flesh slapping flesh. It was a little easier seeing hubby this time...but it helps when I am occupied not to think about it! So hubby and the other wifey finished up, then it was our turn. Hubby came over and started kissing me while I was getting pounded. We finished, and everyone just sat around hanging out and talking. Things were great, then they left.

  So hubby and I were talking in the kitchen and I just kept saying the wrong thing, as I sometimes do when I am a little drunk. Needless to say we got into a little bit of a fight. Everyone is always talking about no drama...you see it on profiles everywhere. We weren't sure what they meant before, but now we understand. Inherently, we don't create drama or want it, but sometimes it happens a little bit. This was personal drama with only us, because I sometimes say the wrong thing, and change the rules in the midst of the action! It had to do with the whole finishing inside thing. He asked me about it while they were fucking, he said he was getting close and he was ready to finish...I felt put on the spot, so I said "ok!" and told him to just finish with her. And I also had let her husband cum while fucking me. I learned later on he was not comfortable with the sudden rule change I made. In our conversation that evening, I was also trying to just illustrate that it was fun because it was just different not better...that's all! I said some things to hubby that he misconstrued as comparing him negatively to the other guy. I'm not always the best at saying what I am actually thinking and sometimes things can be taken horribly wrong. Hubby doesn't always realize that I adore him, and he will always be the best to me! No one can make me feel as amazing as he does. Obviously we worked everything out...I realized I was being stupid and apologized.

  We were still trying to wrap our heads around both experiences, but we both agreed we like swinging...we later realized that the other couples you play with have an effect on the dynamic of the before and after, not just the sex.

How we got our swinging cherries popped…

2011-01-19T07:42:00.000-08:00

So hubby and I had many, many conversations about what types of things we would like to do with another couple and what types of rules we wanted to follow…some that got thrown out the window right away! Should we kiss? How about watching each other? What about the big finish? With who? What to do? So many things! Some for us were never a question but others? Being flexible is key, you can’t set things in stone because you never know until the time comes!

With this in mind, we were interested to see what opportunities would come our way. We had been on SLS, working on our profile and figuring out what pictures to add. Then we got our first email!!!! We opened it and we were both like OMG she is so cute!!!! She asked if we had any pics, and I was going to post them that day, so I sent her one. She said we were cute too!!!! We felt like a bunch of giggly school girls!!! We exchanged a few teasing emails and we still didn’t know etiquette or if there were any rules…so I told her our names and sent her my phone number.

A few days later, after some hot loving, I got a text. Hubby and I were all cuddly in bed and I checked it and was like “it’s her!!!!” So we were texting back and forth and she sent us some naughty pictures…the rest of us exchanged phone numbers so all four of us were texting. We decided to meet the following week. We set up a babysitter and kept texting. It shifted to my hubby to her and her hubby to me texting each other. Lots of dirty, dirty things and pics. We were still virgins and shy, so we didn’t send any naughty pics yet.

So the night we met, we were so nervous!!!! It’s like a first date, but with couples. We met at a bar for some drinks. We got to sit and talk and just hang out and see how comfortable we were with each other. Pictures really don’t give people justice…it really is all about the personalities. I was a little unsure about hubby from the pics, but when we met, everything was fine…they were both so nice and fun to hang out with. After a few hours, my hubby asked if they wanted to come back to our place!!! The vibe was good, so why not!

So we got back to our house, sent the babysitter on her way and went to hang out in our playroom in the basement. We sat around talking and generally being a little nervous, until finally she suggested we get it started. So she climbed on top of her hubby and started kissing him and I did the same to mine, right next to each other on the couch. Things started to progress and clothes started moving around and body parts were poking out…I heard “Look honey, she has big boobies!”…lol! That totally helped lighten the mood and then she and I started kissing…next thing I know, we are missing clothes and the boys started losing theirs too. After a little of that we were all naked and really fooling around with our spouses and she said, “well, are we going to fuck or what?” and we proceeded to swap.

Normally I’m a go for it kind of girl, but I was definitely on the hesitant side of this for some reason. I think I was worried that we were fundamentally going to ruin our awesome marriage because of this, and I wasn’t really sure how into it I really was. But I thought, it was just sex, nothing else! It had never been a problem for me before, so why let it be now? Then hubby basically jumped her with glee right in front of me and there was no turning back.

So, her hubby and I started kissing and I realized it really was just about sex and nothing else. It helped put me at ease and really start to get into it. We all fooled around with each other a lot! Lots of kissing and touching and sucking…it was strange having someone go down on you after ten years of just your husband doing it! But it was cool…my hubby brought her to orgasm and she squirted right on his face. Surprise!!!! And it is strange to suck another guys cock with your husband right near you. Next thing I know hubby starts fucking her…now that was hard to see…I’m not going to lie…so I had to distract myself somehow, so I stopped kissing him and asked if he wanted me to hop on. He said, “What?”. And I said “sorry, that is something hubby and I say, do you want me to climb on top?” So I got a condom, rolled it on and proceeded to climb on his cock. Well, that was a very different experience and it felt so naughty!!!! There was my husband fucking his wife and here we are fucking each other…bizzarre, yet so fun! We switched positions a few times and then switched back to our spouses and then we just stopped.

We hung out talking for a while, they are so cool and open and straight forward, so it was easy to talk about awkward things and clear up any issues. For being first timers, it went really, really well! We got to see what it was like and figure out what worked and what didn’t. Needless to say, hubby and I had lots of things to talk about after this and it of course added fuel to our sexual fire! We liked it so much though, that we had a playdate with them a few days later!!!

Hot! Hot! Hot!

2011-01-19T07:26:00.000-08:00

Needless to say, we have a very hot sex life… smokin’ to be exact! But deciding to become swingers just added fuel to the fire…we couldn’t get enough of each other…2, 3, 4 times a day…it was so HOT! I’m getting juicy just thinking about it…

This really opened up a side to our fantasy life that we really hadn’t shared before. We freely spoke about all the things we really wanted to do with each other and other people! It took a little prying, but once I let all the things in my head go…I couldn’t stop!!!! We we would be getting it on, we would just start talking about what we wanted to do.

He knew I had played with girls a little bit when I was younger…but I finally admitted that it was a fantasy I replayed over and over again when I was petting my kitty. I feel like I never really got to do it quite like I wanted to. :( I let hubby know that it was really at the top of the list on things that I wanted to do! Of course he was very supportive of this idea and has been very helpful in the endeavor…lol!

He expressed a desire for me to be double penetrated…OMG! Now, I do love anal, but only with him and I hadn’t really thought about DP and I told him I was game under certain circumstances only!!! We haven’t done it yet, but we haven’t met the right person for the job.

This has brought us so much closer than we already were…we could talk about anything and anyone! We shared all kinds of ideas about the hot and sexy ladies we would like to play with, the couples, and the moresomes…just a few workings of our dirty little minds.

And boy are they dirty…

Hello There…

2011-01-19T06:19:00.000-08:00

Were do I begin? My husband and I decided to become swingers a few months ago…I started this blog because I need an outlet besides him and my one friend to muse about what we are doing and to laugh, figure out and maybe even help others on their strange journey! We are an average suburban couple, 2 jobs, 1 kid, 2 cats and a house…in a nice suburban area. But the seeds for this were planted long ago…

I was always a freak. Once I hit my teens, it just came out more. Once I started having sex, whoa! I have been in many swinger related situations without really knowing it, until now…lol! I had experienced threesomes, been at an orgy and juggled many boyfriends. I had some experience with girls and I really, really, really love giving and receiving pleasure, period!

Hubby had a girlfriend when we met. She was interested in me, but I didn’t reciprocate…he was disappointed of course. But she was ok with us hooking up and eventually he choose me, because I was the one!!!

So a couple of months ago, our son came downstairs and saw me straddling hubby on the couch. He said…”Family Sandwich!” and jumped up and layed down on top of me. I said to my husband “when I imagined myself with two guys, it wasn’t quite like this”…lol! That is when the serious idea for swinging was planted, I do believe. I have made jokes about it and we had talked about it in a cursory way, I was always curious and I had no idea how much he was!

The act that sealed the deal was a question he asked me while we were getting it on one night…in the heat of the moment I said, yes, oh yes…and that lead to him asking me if I thought we wanted to swing a few months later…I thought about it for a minute…and said why not?

He had most definitely been doing his homework since the night in question…he had been listening to swinger podcasts and reading stuff online…etc. Next thing I know, we have a new email and profiles on some swinger sites…omg! That was fast and a little overwhelming!!! It was fun because it was new and also a little confusing! We had to learn new terminology and really talk about so many, many different things!!!! Which I will share in the future…